Life coaching is focused work around what feels stuck, what keeps repeating, and what needs to change next. Dr. Porter helps individuals and couples name the patterns shaping their decisions, relationships, work, and faith, then move toward practical next steps.
Online across the US and in person in Sioux Falls, SD
You do not need the perfect label before reaching out. Most people start with a situation that feels costly, confusing, or hard to keep carrying alone, such as relationship conflict, repeated patterns, or decisions that no longer feel clear.
Recurring conflict
When the same conversation keeps turning into distance, defensiveness, or unresolved tension.
Patterns that repeat
When you can see the loop, but still need help changing how you respond inside it.
Major transitions
When a new season has changed your role, identity, or responsibilities and you need steadier footing.
Pressure at work
When stress, expectations, or workplace relationships are shaping how you show up.
Leadership tension
When responsibility calls for clearer communication, stronger boundaries, and calmer decisions.
Faith discernment
When faith, calling, obedience, or a difficult decision needs a grounded conversation.
Types of life coaching we focus on
These are the main coaching categories that Dr. Porter works with people on. If your situation crosses more than one area, that is completely fine and normal.
Individual Coaching
For people who want greater clarity, steadier direction, and a more grounded way to move through life.
Areas of focus
Understanding patterns that keep showing up
Navigating decisions or life transitions
Clarifying goals and personal direction
Practicing a more grounded way of showing up
Couples & Relationship Coaching
For couples and close relationships that need healthier communication, clearer expectations, and stronger connection.
Areas of focus
Working through recurring tension or conflict
Improving communication and emotional honesty
Clarifying expectations and needs
Rebuilding trust, patience, or connection
Work & Leadership Coaching
For people who want to navigate workplace relationships, responsibility, communication, and leadership with more clarity and integrity.
Areas of focus
Navigating difficult workplace dynamics
Communicating with more clarity and confidence
Managing conflict or tension at work
Understanding your own patterns under pressure
Faith & Discernment Coaching
For people who want faith to be part of the conversation around identity, purpose, relationships, decisions, or calling.
Faith can be included when desired, but it will not be forced or awkwardly added.
Areas of focus
Discerning God's guidance without forcing certainty
Bringing prayer, Scripture, and wisdom into decisions
Clarifying calling, obedience, doubt, and desire
Noticing where faith and daily life have drifted apart
How life coaching works
Once the situation is clearer, the work usually unfolds in three movements that help turn insight into practical change.
Step 101
Clarify what needs attention
Name what feels stuck, what you want to be different, and what progress would look like in real life.
Step 202
Understand the patterns
Look at the habits, assumptions, and dynamics that may be shaping the way you respond.
Step 303
Practice a steadier way forward
Turn insight into clearer choices, healthier patterns, and grounded next steps.
Some common questions about life coaching
Is this therapy?
This work is coaching, not therapy. Dr. Porter's work is informed by decades of clinical experience, but coaching is focused on clarity, growth, relationships, decisions, and practical movement toward the future you want to build. If therapy appears to be the better fit, that can be discussed honestly.
How much does coaching cost?
Coaching plans are tailored to the person, couple, or situation. Because the work is shaped around your goals, the support you need, and what kind of rhythm makes sense, pricing is discussed after Dr. Porter has a clearer understanding of what you are looking for. The discovery process is designed to help clarify fit before any coaching plan is recommended.
Can I use insurance, HSA, or FSA funds?
These coaching services do not bill insurance. Because this is coaching rather than therapy or medical treatment, clients should not assume it will be covered by insurance or eligible for HSA/FSA reimbursement. Some plans have specific rules, so you may want to check with your insurance provider, HSA/FSA administrator, or tax advisor before using those funds.
What kinds of goals can coaching help with?
People come for different reasons: a relationship that feels strained, a decision that feels unclear, a pattern they keep repeating, a work dynamic that is hard to navigate, or a season of life that no longer feels aligned. The starting point is not a pre-set program. The work begins by clarifying what you want to be different and what may be getting in the way.
Do you work with couples and relationships?
Yes. Coaching can support couples and close relationships when people want better conversations, clearer expectations, healthier patterns, and a more grounded way to move through tension. The focus is not blame. The focus is understanding what is happening, what each person wants to move toward, and what needs to change for the relationship to become healthier.
Can coaching help with work relationships or leadership challenges?
Yes. Many people want to show up differently at work, with more clarity, confidence, patience, honesty, or steadiness. Coaching can help you better understand workplace dynamics, recognize your own patterns, and navigate relationships with greater intention.
Do I need to be Christian to work with Dr. Porter?
No. Faith is part of Dr. Porter's foundation, but it is handled with maturity and restraint. For clients who want faith included, it can be part of the conversation around meaning, identity, relationships, decisions, and discernment. For clients who do not want that dimension emphasized, it will not be forced.
Do you work remotely?
Yes. Sessions are designed for remote work, so clients can meet with Dr. Porter from wherever they are. The first step is to answer a few brief questions so the discovery call can begin with a clearer sense of fit and focus.
Ready to find out whether coaching fits?
Answer a few brief questions so Dr. Porter can understand what you are hoping to work through and whether a discovery call is the right next step.